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Vanetta Victoria McKinstry “Vicky”
Vanetta Victoria McKinstry, affectionately known as “Vicky,” was born on December 5, 1952, in Gary, Indiana, to the late Willie Sr. and Losenia Heard. She was the youngest of ten children.
Vicky was a proud graduate of Roosevelt High School in Gary, Indiana, Class of 1971. During her high school years, she was an active member of the Friends of Distinction , Girls Athletic Association, Future Business Leaders of America, America Future Teachers, America Boosters Club, Association Human Relation Club, & Charm Service. & Culture.
It was during her high school years that Vicky met the love of her life, Jerome McKinstry. The two were united in marriage on June 19, 1971, just five days after Vicky’s high school graduation. Together, they began their life as husband and wife in Germany, where Jerome was stationed while serving in the United States Army.
After returning to the United States in 1977, Vicky and Jerome settled in Indianapolis, Indiana, where she began a long and successful professional career with RCA Records/BMG Direct. During her more than 25 years of dedicated service, Vicky received countless recognitions for performance excellence and earned the respect and admiration of her peers and colleagues. She took great pride in her work and was known for her dedication, professionalism, and commitment.
Outside of work, Vicky found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She loved watching Lifetime and Hallmark movies, taking casino road trips, puzzles, cooking, listening to music, finding great sales, and, most of all, spending time with family and friends. She especially enjoyed hosting family barbecues and card parties, creating cherished memories filled with laughter, good food, fellowship, and love.
Vicky was preceded in death by the love of her life, Jerome McKinstry; her parents, Willie Sr. and Losenia Heard; her siblings, Opal, Randall “RB,” Otis (Penny), Henry (Ruth), Willie (Orean), Shirley, and Oliver; beloved grandson Marquis, and her own heavenly angel.
Vicky leaves behind a legacy of love and precious memories to be cherished by her devoted family, including her loving daughters Camellia (James) and Wynetta (Anthony) her son Jerome McKinstry II (Heather); her grandchildren Danielle, Aaron “Hoops,” Jeaveah, Elijah, Jeriah, Jeraye, Jerena, and Jerome III; brother Noble (Verna); sister-cousin Sandra;special niece Pearl; and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family members, and dear friends.
Vicky’s love, laughter, strength, and generous spirit touched the lives of everyone blessed to know her. Though she is no longer with us physically, the memories she created and the love she shared will live on in the hearts of her family and friends forever.
Rest peacefully, Mama/Nana. Your love, your laughter, and your beautiful memories will never be forgotten.
Vicky's services will be recorded and available to view virtually for 30 days,Click Here to View Livestream.
Saturday, September 19, 2026
11:00 am - 1:00 pm (Eastern time)
Flanner Buchanan Funeral Centers - Washington Park East
Saturday, September 19, 2026
1:00 - 2:00 pm (Eastern time)
Flanner Buchanan Funeral Centers - Washington Park East
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