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Thomas C.
Eyler
Jan 29, 1932 — Oct 31, 2026
Wilmington, NC
Monday
Oaklawn Memorial Gardens Cemetery
Starts at 10:00 am (Eastern time)
Thomas Clayton Eyler, 94, of Wilmington, North Carolina, passed away on October 31, 2026. He was born on January 29, 1932, in Crawfordsville, Indiana, to parents, Clayton and Margaret Eyler.
Thomas lived a life marked by service, faith, and dedication to others. He honorably served in the United States Navy, as a member of Underwater Demolition Team -1, a precursor to the Seals. He was awarded the National Defense Service Medal, the United Nations Service Medal and a Four Star Korean Service Medal.
Following his years in service Thomas attended Indiana University and later acquired his real estate license, beginning a career as a real estate broker. In his professional life, Thomas was known not only for his work in real estate, but also for the many ways he gave his time and energy to the community. He assisted fraternal organizations including the Antelope Club, the Knights of Columbus, Veterans of Foreign Wars and the Eagles, among many others. His willingness to help and his steady presence were meaningful to many.
Thomas was proud of his Catholic faith, which remained an important part of his life. He especially loved his wife and treasured the time he spent with his daughters and with his family. Those who knew him will remember a man whose life was grounded in devotion, service, and love for the people closest to him.
Thomas is survived by his daughters, Janice Pflumm and Deborah Eyler; and his grandchildren Heather Eyler, Matthew Pflumm, Allison Pflumm and Christopher Pflumm.
He was preceded in death by his loving wife, Joyce Eyler (nee Sutton); his parents; and his sisters Margaret McCafferty, Rosemary Eyler, Betty Ruhmkorff Donna Clark and Carolyn Henderson.
A Graveside Service with military honors for Thomas will be at 10am on Monday, November 9, 2026, at Oaklawn Memorial Gardens Cemetery – 9700 Allisonville Rd., Indianapolis, IN 46250.
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