Stephen John Hackett

Stephen John Hackett, 55, of Carmel, Indiana, passed away on April 12, 2026.

Born on June 11, 1970, in Chicago, Illinois, to James Michael and Cynthia Hackett, Steve lived loud, loved hard, and left an impression on just about everyone he met. He had a way of bringing people together—usually around a table—filling both hearts and stomachs, and making sure no one left without a story to tell.

At the center of his life was his wife, Nicole—his partner, his soulmate, and without a doubt the love of his life for over 30 years. Everything he built, everything he was proud of, started with her. They did life side by side, through it all.

He was most proud of his daughters, Alexandra and Julianna, who carry his strength, humor, and heart into everything they do. He never missed a chance to talk about them or brag about the women they’ve become.

He is also survived by his brother, Andrew Hackett; his mother, Cynthia Hackett; and a large extended family, along with countless friends, coworkers, and people he mentored who are better for having known him.

Steve spent over 40 years in the restaurant world, making his mark as a leader, a mentor, and a guy who knew how to run a room. From Champs Americana to The Cheesecake Factory, he didn’t just manage restaurants—he built teams, created loyalty, and helped people grow through his guidance and example. He took pride in seeing others succeed because of the time he invested in them.

He lived by the phrase, “grab it like a rabbit and slap it,” and believed in going after life with drive and determination.

Steve was someone who stood tall in every room he walked into—not just in presence, but in personality. He was warm, welcoming, quick with a smile, and made people feel like they belonged. He loved a good story and always took pride in the memories people shared with him, the moments, and the life he built with others.

Outside of work, Steve loved being outside—fishing, walking his dogs, traveling, playing poker, and just being around people. He was also a longtime member of Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral, a place that always felt like home and where he built lifelong friendships, brotherhood, and a strong sense of community.

Steve’s legacy is one of energy, mentorship, and heart. He loved sharing what he knew, encouraging people to be better, and showing up for those around him. He took pride in his girls, in the people he helped along the way, and in the life he built.

Instead of flowers, Steve would ask that donations be made to Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral.

A viewing will be held at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Cathedral on Thursday, April 16th from 5:00–7:00 PM with a Trisagion Service beginning at 7 PM. An additional viewing will be held on Friday at 10:00 AM, followed by a church service at 11:00 AM.